When Ethan joined StepStones for Youth in 2023, he was guarded and hesitant to fully engage in our program. While he met several times with his StepStones Connections Coordinator, he resisted fully investing in the Building Connections Program or the personalized plan they created together. Understandably so—Ethan had grown accustomed to relying on himself, shaped by an inconsistent support system and the feeling of needing to navigate life independently.
At the time, Ethan was living with his foster mother and attending high school to complete his studies before pursuing his goal of becoming a carpenter. However, he struggled to see the value in seeking resources or building relationships, viewing them as risks rather than opportunities. Upon graduating and leaving his foster home, Ethan faced a string of overwhelming challenges. His housing situation became precarious, forcing him to move between Airbnb rentals which offered no stability and drained his finances. At the same time, he realized that carpentry was no longer a career path he wanted to pursue. These converging difficulties left him at a crossroads where he began to reflect on his need for support.
This turning point marked a shift in Ethan’s mindset. Recognizing that he couldn’t navigate these challenges alone, he began collaborating more openly with his Connection Coordinator. They helped Ethan redefine his perspective on relationships to see their value as a source of encouragement, guidance, and joy. Ethan was supported in identifying genuine connections and developing a stronger support network. Through this process, Ethan rebuilt relationships with immediate and extended family members, which significantly improved his mental health and emotional stability. With his newfound openness, StepStones was able to provide more intentional support. Ethan worked with StepStones to create his resume, explore new career options, and cultivate a positive outlook on his future.
StepStones supported Ethan in navigating essential resources to build a foundation for his future. Ethan was offered stable employment at the Toronto Humane Society—a role he loves for its purpose and reliability. StepStones continued to provide mentorship and encouragement as Ethan worked toward his next goal: independent housing. In November of 2024, he moved into his own apartment and has received the practical assistance and emotional support needed for a smooth transition. Now, his apartment is more than just a place to live—it’s a symbol of the stability and optimism he has been striving for.
By addressing critical barriers faced by many youth from foster care, Ethan transitioned from a precarious living situation to a stable home, supported by a strong foundation of relationships and resources. This integration demonstrates how StepStones tailors its programming to address multiple challenges simultaneously, empowering youth to achieve stability and success.
Today, Ethan continues to flourish. He regularly participates in StepStones events, including engagement activities and Tuesday Dinners, where his personality shines. Ethan has come a long way from the young man who resisted help to someone who embraces the value of relationships and community. To Ethan, we want to say how incredibly proud we are of him and how happy it makes us to know he has a safe place to call home. His hard work and tenacity, combined with his optimism and drive to succeed, is an inspiration to us all.
